Friday night I went to dinner with DH, my best friend and her husband. We were celebrating the boys' birthdays. And as happy circumstance would have it, their birthdays fall during Restaurant Week in Boston. We went to Brasserie Jo, an Alsatian style bistro in the Back Bay. It was wonderful. The meal was great. They bring over piping hot French bread and julienned carrots that are marinated in a really tasty dressing. The food was great, but at one point, DH looked over at me and said, "Wow, you're really dressed up compared to everyone here." Mind you, I was wearing the Laura Bennett Dress, (and damn, I looked hot!) Of course, I had two glasses of Nicolas Feuillat champagne in me, so I looked at him and uttered the words in the title of this post. All conversation at the table stopped for a nanosecond, and then we all burst out laughing.
But why do people wear their underdressed look as a badge of honor? I mean, this is one of the nicest restaurants in Boston. I love my jeans and sneaks as much as the next person, but is it really so onerous to clean up once in a while? And I'm not just talking about that. There was the whole brouhaha last summer with flip-flops at the White House, and I went to a black tie not too long ago where someone was wearing jeans! I know that folks figure, "I'm paying for this, I can durn well dress as I please." But most of the time it just doesn't look good.
So what's your experience? Have you seen someone dressed down wildly inappropriately? Is it just a Northeast phenomenon? Is it just me? No, don't answer that last one.
Happy people watching!
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